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March 19, 2022

Family Finance and Budget 19/03/2022 With regards to this week a story I read about principles of finance and budget, I have come to learn many techniques that need to be applied. In a home where finances are not budgeted well things become difficult in finance and everyone knows that having money is very useful, and not having money is very hard. However, do parents fully understand how money plays some part at home. Now come think of it, is very difficult to work and get money and for us to save money for the future it is very extremely important to budget and spends our money wisely. Now let's understand this topic family finances and budget which can also be identified as Financial Stability this sound like a boring topic, and yet parents should care deeply about the end result; having a happy, healthy, and well-adjusted child. However, we may not always equate money with traits. And if you are looking for a nudge to get your finances in order then this is it, because fam...

March 12, 2022

Communication 12/03/2022 Communication is what we do to connect and build stronger relationships with our families and those around us. This week a read a story about how poor communication can break down the interest and the love we have for other people. Now we can also find out the method of communication which some of the methods we can communicate to our families, friends, and love once include the following, in person, Phone calls, text messages, social media such as Facebook, WhatsApp, Snap Chat, Instagram, etc. This tool of communication that I have outlined is all good to connect with people, but the best form of communication is in-person communication is the best way to go. In the olden days in part of Africa when technology is not common people travel several miles to their friends and family to communicate to them, but I say in-person communication is good because, when you have a personal discussion with someone you can express your feelings and your...

March 05, 2022

Family stress 5/03/2021 We all know what it’s stressed. Stress can be emotional like feeling overwhelmed or anxious, mental such as struggling to make decisions or at any time stop worry. Family, whereby two couples have married for over 12 years without having a child, is difficult and devastated, and sometimes if the situation seems to be becoming overwhelming it will eventually lead both parties to stress and anxiety. Sometimes, negative outcomes of it all are many and most especially it happens to the women when they are married for over years without having a child will turn her into depression and anxiety, and sometimes this can also cause a family crisis in the nuclear family and the extended family. A family whereby both side parents of young couples are interested in ground children can become problematic and stressful if the parties are not producing children to the family. However, if this happens questions are going to be asked whether the man has a health issue, ...

February 26, 2022

Sexual intimacy in marriage 26/02/2022 Sexual intimacy is a sacred thing that God is has instituted between man and woman that should be reserved for marriage is critical to a happy healthy marriage and is, unfortunately, one of the most common problems in marriage. The biggest reason sexual intimacy is a problem in marriage. The biggest reason sexual intimacy is a problem in marriage is that there isn’t any. We get caught up in life with work and kids and errands, there is just not enough time in the day. And there are some couples that when they finally have time to themselves, they went on to relax and unwind for an hour before they go into bed. In this era of our time, there are so many things that couples can do to keep their intimacy alive, and most marriages are being broken up and divorced due to a lack of sexual intimacy in marriages. Today I would like to give out so many hits that couples can apply in their marriage and keep their intimacy strong and alive. Some of...

February 19, 2022

Preparing for Marriage 19/02/2022 The past week I have been reading books about marriage and have come up with so many questions and concerns on preparation for marriage I have pondered on this question on how we prepare for marriage and some of these questions which I think and ponder about were! Have you ever experienced marriage disappointment? Preparing for marriage comes with so many huge expectations from both sides of the two partners. However, there is nothing wrong with holding yourself and others to high standards, but it needs to be tempered with a dose of reality. When you let your expectation become impossible to meet, you set your relationship up for disappointment and frustration. Your partner might feel discouraged how can they possibly measure up? Why even try? You might also have a tendency to see anything less than perfect as a failure when that’s simply the case. We‘re both human, and mistakes will be made. We work on recognizing when being you are too har...

February 12, 2022

COURTSHIP IN RELATIONSHIP 12/02/2022 Male handsomeness and female beauty are good gifts from God. The scripture is unashamed to speak of men who had attractive physical appearance and women who had beautiful faces and get these beautiful bodies. Now, I am regularly asked if it is important for a Christian man or woman to be physically attracted to the person they are dating. As I’ve asked this question in the past, I have found that counsel usually comes in one of two basic answers. One answer is that no physical attraction isn’t important and shouldn’t be part of one’s initial consideration; rather, a person’s godly character should be the primary factor, physical attraction is important and should also be part of the equation. Unfortunately, while I agree more with the second of the two, neither of the typical answers to this question go deep enough to provide sufficiently biblical counsel. In order to ful...