Family stress

5/03/2021

We all know what it’s stressed. Stress can be emotional like feeling overwhelmed or anxious, mental such as struggling to make decisions or at any time stop worry. Family, whereby two couples have married for over 12 years without having a child, is difficult and devastated, and sometimes if the situation seems to be becoming overwhelming it will eventually lead both parties to stress and anxiety. Sometimes, negative outcomes of it all are many and most especially it happens to the women when they are married for over years without having a child will turn her into depression and anxiety, and sometimes this can also cause a family crisis in the nuclear family and the extended family. A family whereby both side parents of young couples are interested in ground children can become problematic and stressful if the parties are not producing children to the family. However, if this happens questions are going to be asked whether the man has a health issue, or the woman has a health issue. And at the end of the day when the couple is tired without having the child, and they become stressed and want to give up, they become separated. Sometimes ago I listened to a story about a young couple who has married for over 19 good years without having kids, according to them for the past 19 years they went through a lot of challenges from some family members some from friends and when they went to a family gathering, without going with their kids, they feel so disappointed and hopeless. And according to the man any time the woman took in, then she will have a miscarriage they have had miscarriages for over 13 years in their marriage they do all kinds of medication to find a remedy to the situation, but nothing has helped the situation. They go to church every Sunday pay their tithe to magnify their callings they strive to do good to others and keep the commandment of God they always go to the temple to pray if God will bless them with a child, but nothing has helped. The struggle continues and years later the woman becomes pregnant again they were happy and that was an exciting moment for them. Even though the woman was pregnant, they never had rest of mind because they don’t really know if there will be a miscarriage again, so they were under pressure and keep on praying till the time woman is due to deliver fortunately for the woman give birth to twice a boy and a girl the two couple were happy and they fell relief from stress, depressed pressure, distress, and sorrows. This two people shift from the negative way to the positive way women now feel as a mother and the man feel as a father, they now feel like they both suit into parenthood. Family stress comes as a result of being patient, persevering, enduring, and stress management.