Sexual intimacy in marriage

26/02/2022

Sexual intimacy is a sacred thing that God is has instituted between man and woman that should be reserved for marriage is critical to a happy healthy marriage and is, unfortunately, one of the most common problems in marriage. The biggest reason sexual intimacy is a problem in marriage. The biggest reason sexual intimacy is a problem in marriage is that there isn’t any. We get caught up in life with work and kids and errands, there is just not enough time in the day. And there are some couples that when they finally have time to themselves, they went on to relax and unwind for an hour before they go into bed. In this era of our time, there are so many things that couples can do to keep their intimacy alive, and most marriages are being broken up and divorced due to a lack of sexual intimacy in marriages. Today I would like to give out so many hits that couples can apply in their marriage and keep their intimacy strong and alive. Some of these ideas are,

Plan for it: Planning together with your wife for sex makes it fun, however, it doesn’t sound very romantic very especially when you remember the days before the kids when you had no responsibilities and had spontaneous sex with your partner all the time, but sometimes this necessary. Scheduling for sex can be fun though. Setting the expectation that every day or whenever you want, you will have time alone with your spouse is an exciting thought, but the most important thing is how well all of you can have time for each other and sometimes some women want their husbands to give all to them.

Make it fun: Sex is very fun and exciting to couples and this core responsibility for both spouses I think some of these things can make it fun for both husband and wife when the two of them are in the same mood for it and sometimes the man has to create the exciting environment, now how can you create this exciting environment for it? It all starts by cracking some jokes with your partner during the day in activities also making her smile and be happy before your scheduled time and I think doing this brings up joy among the two of you.

Keep track and do it often: You can do this by setting up some app on your phone to keep track of how often you do it. Maybe this will sound silly to some people, but awareness is key. However, it is easy to lose track of time unless you are keeping track of it. Keeping count has clued to your tread in your relationship as well. When you tend to fight more on the days will not bring any intimacy among both of you and also the more often husband and wife are in good shape the intimacy tends among the two of you and that will make it good. Having sex with your partner always will increase your desire for it. This is the only thing that bought in joy the happiness and can make your marriage strong and healthier.

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