CK

  Sexual intimacy in marriage 26/02/2022 Sexual intimacy is a sacred thing that God is has instituted between man and woman that should be reserved for marriage is critical to a happy healthy marriage and is, unfortunately, one of the most common problems in marriage. The biggest reason sexual intimacy is a problem in marriage. The biggest reason sexual intimacy is a problem in marriage is that there isn’t any. We get caught up in life with work and kids and errands, there is just not enough time in the day. And there are some couples that when they finally have time to themselves, they went on to relax and unwind for an hour before they go into bed. In this era of our time, there are so many things that couples can do to keep their intimacy alive, and most marriages are being broken up and divorced due to a lack of sexual intimacy in marriages. Today I would like to give out so many hits that couples can apply in their marriage and keep their intimacy strong and alive. Some of...

  Preparing for Marriage 19/02/2022 The past week I have been reading books about marriage and have come up with so many questions and concerns on preparation for marriage I have pondered on this question on how we prepare for marriage and some of these questions which I think and ponder about were! Have you ever experienced marriage disappointment? Preparing for marriage comes with so many huge expectations from both sides of the two partners. However, there is nothing wrong with holding yourself and others to high standards, but it needs to be tempered with a dose of reality. When you let your expectation become impossible to meet, you set your relationship up for disappointment and frustration. Your partner might feel discouraged how can they possibly measure up? Why even try? You might also have a tendency to see anything less than perfect as a failure when that’s simply the case. We‘re both human, and mistakes will be made. We work on recognizing when being you are too har...

  COURTSHIP IN RELATIONSHIP 12/02/2022             Male handsomeness and female beauty are good gifts from God. The scripture is unashamed to speak of men who had attractive physical appearance and women who had beautiful faces and get these beautiful bodies. Now, I am regularly asked if it is important for a Christian man or woman to be physically attracted to the person they are dating. As I’ve asked this question in the past, I have found that counsel usually comes in one of two basic answers. One answer is that no physical attraction isn’t important and shouldn’t be part of one’s initial consideration; rather, a person’s godly character should be the primary factor, physical attraction is important and should also be part of the equation. Unfortunately, while I agree more with the second of the two, neither of the typical answers to this question go deep enough to provide sufficiently biblical counsel. In order to ful...

  The Same-Sex Attraction 5/02/2022 This week in family relation class, we discuss same-sex attraction for men and women there are so many things that I have observed from the discussion and all this comes with gender. Going into the spiritual realms God created man and woman with different characteristics. Now talking about same-sex attraction, people say have different beliefs about this behavior which says it is something they have inherited some says it is a spiritual attitude, some also say it is an individual character but to my point of view, for this whole argument, all I will say about this topic is it is something which is being influenced by peers and this will lead me to a story that a man shares with us how he was drug into homosexuality.  According to him, when he was 19 years old, he lost both parents and there was no one to provide for him even to send him to school so, therefore, he starts selling candies at the roadside till one day he meet two men and th...